I'm fed up with it now, please give us the option to be anonymous on login, remove ourself from the "where" search, or just do something to fix it so I can play in peace!
Any player in the game can add you as a friend without you accepting the request (what genius thought that up?) so they can instantly see when you log on.
Today someone turned up while I was relaxing killing stuff, said "I came to follow you, I want to see how you kill stuff" mucked up my pulls, wasted time on my potion. STALKER much?
I'm at the point where I don't want to login anymore, as I know I can not just get on and play the game without being disturbed.
PLEASE give us some options, maybe tie them in to our own friends lists, so only those people can message/find us?
Sorry if it sounds like a rant, but IT IS! its pissing me off now.