As seen in this thread ( http://forums.hunted...showtopic=57234 ) and after some misunderstands made clear, I think that either the whispers should be either in a different box of its own or just the general and realm chats since group chats often (in my experience) also gets a bit chatty. As for people logging off when they are in groups, I prefer the old system, if they came back in the older system they would automatically got their spots back (providing its enough room left) but if they left for good, they would automatically leave the group.
But for now, I think having whispers displaying in every box helps everyone gets their private chats a lot better.