Hello Aislinn,
your former cult does not exists any more, so you can try to get an invitation to another one if you decide to become a member.
Same for your alts. Looking at you gives No bonding, but that may change when you become a member.
The most important benefit of bonding is getting a lot of XP's for your bondies kills, especially if they are of a much higher level.
You can get a lot of information from https://gothador.fan.../Gothador_Wiki (also the way to get a divorce if needed).
If you become a member, you can also add your alts to your membership. It is officially against the rules to have multiple characters, unless they are part of the same membership. Violations may result in being kicked out (if anyone of the cows bothers any more).