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#41 lester

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Posted 11 February 2015 - 21:04

actually my post wasn't snapping. It was stating my opinion and observation based on what you said.   

I think one can only base their response on the words you wrote 

Really?

 

that's sad you think that and enjoy doing that to people.

 if you have to play games to decide who your friends are then they aren't really your friends because you just made 'friends' by being manipulative and fake by doing that. 

 

The fun kind of bullying is cyber bullying since you can play a little game of psycho analyzing;breaking down people to see what their weaknesses and strengths are.From my personal experience the sensitive ones are the easiest and "Funnest" ones to break,they basically do the work for you.Why I like doing this? It is a faster way of knowing someone for who they truly are.I use this psycho analyzing game to decide my friends.Sensitive people are not reliable since they are prone to manipulation while the unaffected have a constant behavior you can rely on.

However it is really fun game it is necessary for the patient or "Victim" as you call it to co-operate meaning responding to what the "Bully" says,which is why it is hard to psycho analyze Ben :)

Please point out where i state "I join games to manipulate people into being my friend." I accused you of snapping since you exaggerated  or made up  things i did or didn't post in a aggressive tone.


Edited by lester, 11 February 2015 - 21:05.

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#42 Blissy

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Posted 12 February 2015 - 07:59

lol that sounds like snapping to you?

what you highlighted in yellow?

 

  think we have a different definition of 'snapping' then.

 

that is an opinion, a view based on your post, ie a comment in response to said post.  

the fact that you can 'hear' my tone says to me you are sensitive as your reading into a written opinion about my read on the words you wrote even though I don't see any expression of a personal remark to you like ' are you stupid that you think that's ok?' <---- now that is snappy and has anger 'tone' to it.   see to me what I said was quite different but guess to you it's kind of what you felt like it was saying.

 

but if you feel it was 'snapping' that again is a personal view on what you read as was mine on what I read in your post so really no point in debate.

 

my definition of snapping at someone is basically to make a sharp, often hostile or scolding remark to someone.

 

how is that harsh or scolding? lol. 

 

you stated you like to "play this game" which you referred to as" cyber bullying" as a test or way to find out if someone could be your friend.  you expressed that you enjoyed doing this by saying you think it's  funny...

 

and my opinion on your post having just your words to go by is that which I said previously.

 

you didnt' have to write the words manipulative, it's exactly what you expressed in your first post by saying you like to play this game as if that was some sort of pyscho analytical test to find out of someone could be your friend.  

 

you didnt' have to write the words 'for your amusement' , you said you thought it was fun which shows you find it amusing hence amusement.  

 

hope that makes it a bit more clear about my post? 

 

  I don;'t know pretty sure others that read it got what I was trying to communicate but doesnt' mean everyone will agree with my thoughts, yours or anyone else's but those were mine and I still think for me personally I rather deal with people in general in a different way then your approach. 

 

  whether you have other approaches or not is not what the topic was about.,  you addressed the idea of 'cyber' bullying and I responded to your post. 

 

that's about it lol.


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#43 Caligula

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Posted 12 February 2015 - 12:14

The many times I've had my pk'ing to others. I've had a few people say I was "bullying" and "harassing" them because I was killing them when they had no smuggled mats or tokens? I'm not there for that. If I kill you, it's no harsh feelings. But it was your decision to step into an area where it is free PvP. I do it more for the achievement. And as everyone says constantly, you don't want to die? Go level your professions/gather your mats somewhere where it isn't a PvP zone.


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#44 lester

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Posted 12 February 2015 - 21:25

lol that sounds like snapping to you?
what you highlighted in yellow?
 
  think we have a different definition of 'snapping' then.
 
that is an opinion, a view based on your post, ie a comment in response to said post.What good is a opinion of a post if you exaggerated and made up details in which i proved are not contained in my post?
the fact that you can 'hear' my tone says to me you are sensitive as your reading into a written opinion about my read on the words you wrote even though I don't see any expression of a personal remark to you like ' are you stupid that you think that's ok?'Hmm, I'm sensitive because I said your tone was aggressive ? I don't know maybe I am or maybe it's because you used words like pitiful, and mentioned"sounds like you may have some issues of insecurity yourself" I think that was a personal remark, I don't know if I think of this because I'm "Sensitive" or maybe because you used the word "Yourself" <---- now that is snappy and has anger 'tone' to it.   see to me what I said was quite different but guess to you it's kind of what you felt like it was saying.
 
but if you feel it was 'snapping' that again is a personal view on what you read as was mine on what I read in your post so really no point in debate.
 
my definition of snapping at someone is basically to make a sharp, often hostile or scolding remark to someone.
My definition of snapping is making a personal remark in ANY negative way.
how is that harsh or scolding? lol. 
 
you stated you like to "play this game" which you referred to as" cyber bullying" as a test or way to find out if someone could be your friend.  you expressed that you enjoyed doing this by saying you think it's  funny...
 
and my opinion on your post having just your words to go by is that which I said previously.
 
you didnt' have to write the words manipulative, it's exactly what you expressed in your first post by saying you like to play this game as if that was some sort of pyscho analytical test to find out of someone could be your friend.  
 
you didnt' have to write the words 'for your amusement' , you said you thought it was fun which shows you find it amusing hence amusement.  
 
hope that makes it a bit more clear about my post? 
 
  I don;'t know pretty sure others that read it got (or maybe they were in the same emotional state you were in,which helped interpret things easier) what I was trying to communicate but doesnt' mean everyone will agree with my thoughts, yours or anyone else's but those were mine and I still think for me personally I rather deal with people in general in a different way then your approach. 
 
  whether you have other approaches or not is not what the topic was about.,  you addressed the idea of 'cyber' bullying and I responded to your post. 
 
that's about it lol.

Edited by lester, 12 February 2015 - 21:26.

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#45 Blissy

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Posted 13 February 2015 - 09:04

\ :lol:/

 

 

anyhooo think we about debated this topic out the door for now. 

 

I shall agree to disagree about my impressions on your post and your impressions on my post and move on to other topics, this one seems to have run it's course :)

 

so that said :

 

 

ok I admit I had to post that one because look how cute he is! (reminds me of the pet) :wub:


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Posted 13 February 2015 - 17:05

YOU BUNCH OF SOFT SOGGY BREAD STICKS!!!!! there hows that for bulling?? I LOVE YOU ALL !!! remember folks its just a game  and dont let those bullies get you down there still US GOOD FOLKS HERE!!!


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Posted 13 February 2015 - 18:38

Okay I will opine.

 

Bullying is wrong no matter where it takes place. Period. Report them at once, take a screenshot and submit a ticket. Then put them on your ignore list. As a mom, I just do not tolerate bullying and some of these kids/whatever should be glad that there are laws that keep a parent from kicking the ass of someone under 18 for messing with their kid or any kid for that matter. Notice this does not apply to the animal kingdom as a lioness will kill for her cubs....some should be grateful they live in a civilized society :)

 

Now, as for TA. It IS a PVP area but it is also a high risk GATHERING area. If it were NOT a gathering area, you would not get the buff on XP and have gathering dailies. Now, to say yet again, it is a HIGH RISK area. I would pot up for more xp and get SOOOOOO frustrated when I would pked over and over and over again, only to waste my pots which I paid real world money for. THAT is enough to piss anyone off. But you know the risk when you go up there. I went to switching servers when certain known 'bad pkers' (pkers just out to mess with people because they are bored) were online. It worked enough to get my levels to max out my alchemy. Making friends who were pkers didn't hurt either ;)

 

Here is another thought, try turning around and fighting back. I must admit, as someone who is not a fan for PVP....it felt pretty "expletive" good to see and hear my computer say "Babyjinx is on a Rampage" when someone tried to kill me in the process of gathering my Balan leaves ;)

 

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Posted 14 February 2015 - 00:05

If you are under 16 years old and being cyber bullied, tell your parents.

 

If you are over 16, grow some balls and stick up for yourself. :P


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#49 lester

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Posted 15 February 2015 - 04:20

If you are under 16 years old and being cyber bullied, tell your parents.

 

If you are over 16, grow some balls and stick up for yourself. :P

If you are over 16 bully them back, and have some fun with it. ;)


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#50 TimeWillTell

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Posted 15 February 2015 - 05:44

Isn't the saying, the bigger man walks away?



#51 lester

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Posted 15 February 2015 - 12:46

Nah the bigger man makes a fool out of the first man.


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#52 Jam2x

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Posted 15 February 2015 - 13:59

i always ignore these kind of topics, i don't watch hentai anyways. you can always report these kind of people lol i've seen a lot of people got banned using offensive words.


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